Saturday, March 14, 2009

Sorry for the long delay in posting....I've probably lost a bunch of you, but I hope we can get back on track. So much happened around the holidays....

In response to the sledding comment....I, also, remember long sledding trains through Chesterbrook Woods. It seemed like there would be 20 sleds chained together - toes hooked into the front of the one behind. Do kids do this any more? With the recent snow here in SW VA, it was the adults I know that went "coasting."

But as kids we'd hook up so many sleds that the last ones would get whipped around the corners and not always make the turn. I know that I was dumped more than once....and had a pretty good crash with two sleds colliding side to side. There were 2 of us laying on one sled. I was on top and steering. The second sled was 3 people sitting. They were half way down the hill before I took off, but we still caught up and to keep us from smashing into each other, the guy controlling the other sled gave us a gentle push sideways. The road must have been solid ice because we veered off and hit a pile of packed snow and flipped into a shoveled driveway. That was one bloody night....when faces hit pavement it makes a real mess!! All survived!!

That may not sound like fun, but it is those kinds of events by which life is made memorable.

My brother told me that I was the only person he knew who could laugh and cry at the same time....I don't do it as much now....but I did that night. Do kids still do that? Do they still have the simple fun of putting on 6 layers of clothes til you can only walk like you're wearing a full body cast? Pulling on your boots and having to have your mother put her hands way up your sleeves to pull down your sweater under the coats? And ending up at someones house for hot chocolate with little marshmallows? And does anybody still go door to door carolling at Christmas?

Our great sledding escapades seemed to be after dark and it was safe and really fun!!!

I also remember building an igloo in a friend's driveway....it was big enough that I think 3 of us could get in and play.

They were the best winters - those of childhood.....the deepest snows, marathon Monopoly games, and gangs of friends playing all day 'cause school was out. There was one time about 1966 or 67 when we had snow after snow and were out of school for 11 days I think. Maybe that's when I learned to love hunkering down inside, playing cards and reading a book by the fire. I don't' get bored being in for days....there is so much to keep me happy inside....like blogs and Facebook, but also great books, old movies, and the cocoa has graduated to a glass of red wine or an Irish coffee. And once in a while....taking a dip in the hot tub with a bottle of tequila.

Some adults (at least one or two I know) appreciate their toys more than kids who want everything electronic....I love my PC, cell phone and MP3, but even more I love the fluid words of Ken Follett, Jose Cuervo and good friends.

I doubt McLean was any different in the love of childhood, great snows and warm fires, but what makes it special is that is was our childhood.

Do you have a favorite place you went sledding? Let us know. Chesterbrook Woods was full of hills....and the only way out from my house was up one of three hills....you could take the shorter steep route, or the long and more gradual slope - and mostly that depended on whether you were going up or down, and how much of a running start you needed if you were going up. My Dad always had a 4-wheel drive of come kind - and there weren't that many around then like there are today - and he was always pulling someone out of a ditch or a snow bank.

The good old days can be the good new days if we let them - there is little reason to let a number such as age stop us from making more memories. Yes there are memories to be made with children and grandchildren, but remember, if you're out there with them - those experiences will one day be their memories and they'll be warmed inside like by a cup of cocoa when they recollect the days of their youth.

4 comments:

Nancy Welge said...

Carol:

So glad you're back. We missed you. That was my sister Maggie talking about the sledding on Waggaman Circle (and my sister Amy is another contributor to this lovely site). I think the linking of sleds was maybe the only time the "big kids" would let us "little kids" in on the fun. Now that I think back on it though, they were probably just waiting for us to wipe out!

I don't think it snows as much as it did back in the 60's, must be global warming.

We used to go Christmas caroling with the Clarke's (Bruce, Trilby, Julie, Connie, and Nora, any of those names ring a bell). Then we'd go back to their house and have the best snacks (our house wasn't much of one for snacks (7 kids, all we got were 3 squares, just kidding, but it seemed like it)).

I too love being hunkered down (although in Florida, it's usually for a hurricane).

Anyhoo, glad you're back. I'll be Facebooking you soon!

Nancy

amy paris said...

I think there was more snow back then, too. And my father didn't have 4-wheel drive, but I do remember him roaring out the driveway and revving it up the hill. He pretty much always made it! Seems like the roads were icy more than snowy back then, too. Sometimes if it was icy enough, the sled would go all the way around the curve at the bottom of the hill and on around part of the circle!! Good times!

Aunt Maggie said...

I was so excited to learn that my stepson and stepdaughter (grown themselves) took her grandkids and their family out caroling in stafford for christmas. Their spin though was they took my stepson's van with police lights and bullhorn blasting the music they were singing too and they gave out candy to the houses they went to.... it took me back and i was really happy that the tradition continues, albeit dressed up.

Carol Smith said...

Thanks for hanging in there......I still plan on posting more...I like chatting with you about our home town!!!